7 Myths About Career Transitions That Are Keeping You Stuck

7 Myths About Career Transitions That Are Keeping You Stuck

Career transitions mythsCareer transitions are hard. It’s not easy changing jobs, being relocated or jumping into a new career. It’s especially true when it affects our work. Considering we spend the majority of our time at work, change in our careers can be destabilizing.

Career transitions have always been challenging for me. I get attached to people and places. As a result, moving to a different job or career always takes a toll on me. Yet, I’ve come to understand that without career transitions, there is no career growth.

The reason why so many of us avoid career transitions is because we’re afraid of change. As a result, we stay stuck in jobs we hate, spending our precious time and energy on careers we loathe. We’re too afraid to go for the next job or take a leap of faith into the unknown.

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Here are seven of the most prevalent myths that keep us away from career transitions, and keep us tuck:

Career transitions are too hard.

The #1 myth around career transitions is that they’re too difficult. We think it’s going to require too much time and energy to start at the bottom in a new career. Or to look for and get a different job. Or even to ask for that rise or promotion.

Yes, there is a level of effort and discomfort involved in undergoing any transition. Yet, the ROI on your effort might very well be rewarded with significant career advancement. Or you may just remain where you are, stuck…

What to do: Make peace with the fact that you may have to put in some work. Make a list of all the advantages that will come with your career transition. It may learning new skills, making more money, or finding fulfillment. Comparing the benefits with the costs will give you the courage to make a change.

 

It’s not the right time for a career transition

In between your busy schedule, the kids’ calendar and the never-ending laundry, there are not enough hours in the day. Never mind trying to go through a career transition of any kind…

Life only gets busier as we go. There will never really be a right time for any type of change. The only way to know what will happen Is simply to get started.

What to do: Stop waiting and preparing to no end! Instead, start taking action towards achieving the transition you’ve been thinking about. Ask for the promotion or raise. Start looking for a job in your dream company. Start saving money to take the leap in your own business. Just start….

 

I don’t know the right people to make a career transition

Many of us think we have to know the right people to get ahead. When we start thinking of career transitions, we also think about who can help us. Who can help you get that interview for the new job you’ve been eyeing for months? Who can you contact to mentor you to start your own business?

When making career transitions, networking is an important skill. Not knowing the right people stops so many of us from making the career switches we need to.

What to do: Not having all the right contacts should not stop you from starting your career transition. As a matter of fact, it’s the sheer act of starting your career transition that will get you closer to the people who can help you. Make an inventory of all the people in the career, department or company you plan to transition in, and start by following them on social media. Find out about networking events they attend, or common acquaintances you may have. Leverage these events and common contacts to reach out to them and gain more information about their field of work.

 

I don’t have the money to make a career transition

Some career transitions can be expensive. When I decided to leave Big Corporate to start my own business, I had to make sure I had a financial cushion to support me during the shift. Moving to a different state or country to get the job of your dreams can also be costly, although your company can decide to pay for it.

Attending networking events, job searching, even improving your wardrobe can all be expenses you’ll incur when transitioning careers. Yet you should not let it stop you from finding and doing work you enjoy.

What to do: If you haven’t already, start aggressively saving! Make a budget and track all unnecessary expenses. Make an inventory of all the unneeded expenses you can save instead, and set a monthly savings objective.

 

What are people going to think about me?

One of the most common of our worries when effecting a career transition is people’s opinion. What will people think if you change careers? Or change jobs? Or transition to a new department or new company?

What to do: Make peace with the fact that your decisions may not please everyone. Instead, focus on your long-term vision and plans to make necessary changes. As a litmus test, simply ask yourself: “Will it matter in five years?” If the answer is no, then do not worry so much about it.

 

I don’t have ALL the skills required to make this career transition

Did you know that men will go for a job they’re only 60% qualified for, while women will wait to be 100% qualified to apply for the same job? Not having all the skills required for a given job or career should not prevent you from making the transition. You can always acquire new skills, and gain more knowledge and experience over time. However, some missed opportunities are hard to re-create or come by again. Don’t let the appearance of missing skills keep you from a great career transition.

What to do: Evaluate the skills you have for the job, career, or whatever transition you’re planning to make. Refrain from focusing so much on what you don’t have. Instead, leverage the formal and informal capabilities you’ve acquired over time to make the best transition possible.

 

What If I Fail?

The fear of failure keeps most of us from making career transitions that could otherwise be beneficial for us. Instead of planning for success, we tend to imagine all the possible negative scenarios. As a result, it keeps us from researching or even attempting any career transition at all.

What to do: Keep your eyes focused on the prize. Visualize positive outcomes, and see yourself successfully completing your career transition.

 

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What would you add to this list?

 

To Your Success,

The Corporate Sis.

Weekly News Roundup

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Welcome to our weekly career, entrepreneurship, lifestyle and fashion news roundup! Think of it as your online watercooler/work gossip station/coffee break spot for now…Want to add anything to our list? Email us at corporate@thecorporatesister.com!

 

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Weekly News Roundup

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Welcome to our weekly career, entrepreneurship, lifestyle and fashion news roundup! Think of it as your online watercooler/work gossip station/coffee break spot for now…Want to add anything to our list? Email us at corporate@thecorporatesister.com!

  • This week we celebrated Black Women’s Equal Pay Day. Fortune encourages us to talk about it;
  • Did you take your vacation this year? The HR Bartender confirms vacations help employee performance;
  • Want to raise healthy, happy kids? Inc. says science recommends to stop doing this;
  • Black Enterprise shares 5 lessons we’ve learnt from Auntie Maxine, including reclaiming our time;
  • High heels and discriminatory dress codes in the workplace: The Undercover Recruiter shares how these disproportionately affects women;
  • Introvert Alert! The Recruiter shares the guide for introverts to starting a new job;
  • Ellevate Network shares why failing is the key to career success;
  • Glassdoor lists 11 things never to say in an interview;
  • We all have unconscious bias. Ellevate Network shares tips to eliminate it to make better decisions;
  • TCS welcomed its very first intern this summer. Here are 7 tips to successfully work with your first intern.

 

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Our Wear to Work feature presents workwear selections in various sizes and prices.

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This large tote is available in various colors, from pink (my favorite), to jewel blue, black, french grey, etc. It's $198 at Zappos.

 

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7 Tips to Successfully Work With Your First Intern

7 Tips to Successfully Work With Your First Intern

7 tips to successfully work with your first intern

TCS welcomed its very first intern, and can I say she’s simply amazing! In addition to being a huge help, she’s also full of great ideas and insights! One of the great advantages is also that through her, I get to revisit what it means to successfully work with interns, especially with your first intern.

I remember being an intern in college and having so many unanswered questions at the time. While I’ve worked with interns during my corporate career and now in business, it's always refreshing to stay updated on what it really takes to do so successfully.

 

7 tips to Successfully Work with Your First Intern

 

Here are 7 tips from my corporate experience to my entrepreneurial hustle to build powerful experiences with your interns:

 

  1. Know the law!

 

Before you start working with an intern, you want to make sure that you’re on the right side of the law. While this may be taken care of by your organization, it's always informative to read about the legal side of internships.

Internships, especially when unpaid, are slightly different from traditional work arrangements. You can consult the Department of Labor regulations for what qualifies as an unpaid internship, and how to go about it.

 

2. Align your goals with that of your intern

Working with your first intern (and subsequent ones) is a great way to share your goals. It's also the perfect time to learn about their goals and what they're looking to get out of the experience.

The more you can align your goals with theirs, the more enriching it can be for both parties.

 

3. Make teaching your priority

Internships are first and foremost learning opportunities. Although there certainly is work involved, the priority should be to impart knowledge and experience. Whether it's about the industry, the company or the job at hand, make sure to strike a healthy balance between actual work and teaching on the job.

4. Be open to learning from your intern

One of the reasons I've always loved working with interns is the fresh perspective they bring with them. Be open to learning about different ways of working, or even pick up a few advanced social media or Excel tricks here and there!

5. Be mindful of their learning style

Different people learn differently. For interns whose experience in the professional world or in your particular industry may be limited, this is even more prevalent.

Is your intern more of a visual learner? Does s/he thrive with on-hands task? Learn about the way they learn best and try to keep them engaged.

6. Communicate clearly

One of the most common obstacles to successful internships is poor and unclear communication. After all, your intern most likely has very little, if any, exposure to your industry or line of work.

Make sure to keep the lines of communication as clear as possible:

  • Have an orientation at the beginning: This will help get a picture of your industry or business, clarify your goals and set the tone.
  • Prepare as many procedures as possible: Consider preparing and sharing procedures describing your main processes to speed up the learning process.
  • Write down detailed instructions: Even if you're better at giving instructions verbally, consider writing down detailed instructions for your intern. This will minimize the miscommunication risk and the frustrating back-and-forth.

7. Show, Don't Just Tell

When it comes to working with your first intern, lead by example. Whether it's through displaying integrity or demonstrating how the work is done, show, don't just tell!

What other advice would you add to this list?

To your success,

The Corporate Sis.