by Solange Lopes | Apr 10, 2016 | Career
I’ve been wanting to talk about mindset and meditation at work for a while, but frankly, I wasn’t sure which angle to take on it without sounding all woo-woo and stuff…So at the risk of sounding all woo-woo and stuff, I’m just going to put it out there: one of the most powerful tools of career success is, wait for it, your mind! Yes, your mind. Not your hard work, not your extra face time at work, or your practically living at your desk 90% of the time.
With that, comes the potential to tap into its power through the practice of meditation and mindfulness…And before you click off back to Facebook to check on your frenemy’s last vacation to that spot in Bali you’ve been praying to visit, hear me out…
Before I started consciously (and consistently) meditate, I thought there would be no way in hell I could get my mind to be still. Especially not when it came to anything remotely work-related. And especially not at work. I mean, let’s just start with the inbox factor, with thousands of emails coming at you from every corner of the company, from the IT technician who messed up re-imaging your computer (so now your screen’s actually suggestively blinking at you), to the Director who wants that strategy report on his desk by 11am (really, 11am is pre-lunch time!!!).
Let’s keep it real. For the rest of us human corporate sisters running from endless meetings to kid pickups, not to mention the extra-fast occasional online shoe-shopping, our minds tend to be constantly in overdrive. When you’re not thinking about what to reply to your manager about that report you haven’t even started yet, you’re concocting a 10-minute (somewhat healthy) dinner in your head for tonight. Or you’re trying to remember if your daughter’s recital is this Sunday (or was last Sunday)…
In our busy, overbooked, overstretched lives, how often do we crave that breath of fresh air, that feeling of laying on the beach somewhere in the Cape-Verde islands, being caressed by the sun, in total, absolute peace? Until the kids start throwing sand at us and screaming they need to pee this very minute (and of course, there are no toilets nearby, in addition to the fact you just got to the best part of your novel…)
Yet what if that breath of fresh air, that delicious feeling of being at peace, were readily available in your everyday life, and in your career? Not just when you’re on that much-awaited vacation. Not just when you’re home alone and you can finally pee alone without anyone asking for anything as you’re trying to accelerate your natural urine flow (excuse the graphic image…)…
Adding meditation as a success practice in your career not only provides you with that much-needed break in your life and career. It also sets you up for great success at work, for the very reason that for the majority of people, work is one of the biggest sources of stress. As a result, our work performances, attitudes and outlook suffer from it. All in all, it ends up being a lose-lose situation.
So today, I encourage you to add meditation to your career as a major success factor. Even when you think you have no time for it. Even when you think this would be pushing the craziness factor even further than mismatching your socks underneath your suit (or quietly picturing that awful colleague at work with toilet paper sticking from their pantyhose, or some other scenario you’d never let slip out of your over-imaginative mind)….
Set some time on your calendar for it.; all you need is really about 10 to 15 minutes to sit in silence, quiet your mind, and breathe deeply. Find a quiet place where you can spend some time alone and quiet your mind. It doesn’t matter if you can book a room, or if you have to sit in a toilet stall for that time (true story).
However you choose to do it, just choose to cater to your mind’s health by practicing quiet time. And it may just be exactly what you need to do in one of the least quiet places and times of your life, at work.
Do you practice meditation as part of your career?
Love and Light,
The Corporate Sis.
by Solange Lopes | Apr 8, 2016 | Career

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It’s the week-end baby!
And in honor of relaxing (in style of course), my pick is this roll-tab sleeve chambray shirt. Love the relaxed, all-day comfort fit of this shirt that takes you from the easy Saturday morning brunch to the kids’ birthday party…
The point collar and front pocket add a classic touch to this modern, easy piece with an easy price tab of $39.99 at Macy’s. Want to bring the glam factor up a notch? Add a funky yet ladylike layered necklace like this one to complete your look. And voila!
So corporate sisters, what do you think? Yay or Nay?
Love,
The Corporate Sis.
by Solange Lopes | Apr 8, 2016 | Career
This is our weekly career and lifestyle news update, where we round up exciting news of the last week and we let you have it…ahem, news-wise that is…
Think of it as your career gossiping section on steroids…
And while you’re at it, follow us on Facebook, Twitter,IG, and Pinterest!
Here we go…
- Want to maximize your leadership skills? Ellevate Network tips you off on 5 ways women can maximize their leadership skills.
- Don’t wanna pay for grad school? Well, The Muse lists 24 courses taught online by Ivy Lague professors for…free! And you can start, like…now!
- Speaking of grad school, Business Insider lists the 50 best business schools in the world (and no, Harvard is not #1)
- Tired of waiting time in meetings? You can use this free tool from Microsoft to see if you’re wasting time in meeting (right before you go drown yourself in a tub of coffee…)
- Need to make flexible work arrangements? This is what every employee should know about flexible work
- If you’ve ever dealt with the office’s lazy guy/gal who spends the day updating their Facebook status, here are 5 things you can do to get them to snap out of it (without having to throw anything at them)
- Scared of being stuck with the wrong mentor? Here’s how to avoid it and have a positive, fulfilling mentor-menthe relationship
- Worried about bringing your beat up sneakers to work? Corporette offers a few stylish alternatives
- Think you can’t get your fitness on at work? Well, think again…Careerealism shows you 6 sneaky ways to exercise at work (#3 is my go-to)
- Yes, you can keep your Facebook friends! Apparently, they’re more likely to get you a job than your real-life friends…
Love,
The Corporate Sis
by Solange Lopes | Mar 18, 2016 | Career |

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It’s the weekend, baby!
And my week-end pick is a classic yet funky one! Nothing says funky classic (and classy) like a traditional pair of Chuck Taylor All Stars Converse, like this one from Net-A-Porter! It’s clean and basic to run errands on the week-end (while running after the kids, the cart and the coupons, not necessarily in that order…).
I’d pair it with these high-rise Citizens of Humanity jeans for an even funkier, but always classy, touch!
Enjoy your week-end!
The Corporate Sis.
by Solange Lopes | Mar 18, 2016 | Career
This is our weekly career and lifestyle news update, where we round up exciting news of the last week and we let you have it…ahem, news-wise that is…
Think of it as your career gossiping section on steroids…
And while you’re at it, follow us on Facebook, Twitter,IG, and Pinterest!
Here we go…
- Levo asks the question as to who has the collaborative edge at work when it comes to gender roles (and the answer is on point);
- The Muse lists 7 ways quiet people (myself included) can make an impression in meetings without getting out of our comfort zone (#2 is my go-to);
- Want to land your dream job? A Stanford psychologist shares a smart trick to do so (and it’s quite unconventional too…);
- The Personal Branding Blog tips us off on how to effectively combat the “being too busy” syndrome;
- Dreaming to pursue your passion? Here’s why this founder of a $40 million company advises you to save your passion for the week-end;
- Ever had a colleague take credit your work? Corporette tells you what to do (and no, it doesn’t include shoving files down heir throat either…)
- These five questions might explain why you’re the perfect bullying target at work (or not)
- Careerealism lists these three reasons why you should consider mock interviews
- Last but not least, The Corporate Sister has a few tips on working with a friend.
Happy Friday!
Love,
The Corporate Sis.