by Solange Lopes | Dec 7, 2014 | Career |
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I was watching Christmas with the Kranks the other day, and oh could I relate to this middle class couple who just wanted to trade the Christmas busyness for a relaxing (and warm) cruise in the Caribbeans. As I sat in traffic with a bunch of holiday-crazed drivers this week-end trying to get to one more overcrowded store playing one more overplayed Christmas tune, I couldn’t help but thinking “This is why the holidays suck!”…
Other than the heavy pressure on your already light wallet, the holidays can be especially hard on everyone who’s not the picture perfect family huddled around their tastefully decorated Christmas tree. For grieving families who’ve suffered losses, all this cheer is a constant reminder of what no longer is. Economically speaking, despite the 4.1% increase in sales this holiday season predicted by the National Retail Federation, most of this spending will be made by the wealthiest among us, with the rest of the population “bracing for a have-not holiday“. Not to mention the stress of the extra spending, extra time, and extra exhaustion during this time…
As a society, we’ve managed the extraordinary feat of turning a holiday about love and family into the biggest commercial challenge of the year. And we’ve willingly, in the process, piled on more obligations and requirements onto our already overflowing to-do list. Hence the lady in the mall’s parking lot just stole your spot and gave you the finger, or that you caught yourself elbowing the cutest little girl to get the last Frozen Snow Glow Elsa doll for your daughter (I didn’t do it!). Well, this, all this craziness, all this time and money spent at getting things we won’t remember for people who won’t remember them in five years (or next week), and all this do that, and cook this, and buy that, this is why the holidays suck…and why it’s hard to be cheerful when you’ve got to fight with a 5-year old for a toy…
And since we all, deep down inside, in that still warm corner of our hearts that’s not trying to get back at that crazy driver in the Walmart parking lot, really like the holiday season, it may be high time to put down the to-do list, drive away from the overcrowded stores, and give that poor kid at the store the last doll…After all, it will be over in a few days, and no one, not even you will remember what all the fuss was about (except for that giant headache that won’t quit)…And if you must, order online, get everyone the same ugly sweater, or heck…book that family cruise!
Happy…ahem…holidays!
The Corporate Sis.
by Solange Lopes | Dec 7, 2014 | Career
Weekly news update – Photo: blackgirllonghair.com
Happy Sunday! Hope everyone’s having a great week-end! We got our Christmas tree yesterday, all the while disrupting the entire store courtesy of two over-agitated toddlers. Christmas shopping is 75% done, as I’m praying for a stress-free holiday season this year (one can always hope, right?). And in the midst of all the holiday craziness, packed schedule and extra pounds, here is a look at this week’s news:
- This week we saw the Nation shaken by the Grand Jury decision not to indict the police officers involved in the deaths of Mike Brown and Eric Garner, and The Root confirms protest against police violence continue in cities across the country, while the New York Times admits police violence seems to result in no punishment;
- In other controversial news, Peggy Young’s case against UPS’, and companies in general, treatment of pregnant women at work has Mother Jones (and everyone else around) raising the question as to whether companies can treat pregnant workers like crap;
- Black Enterprise provides five tips to ensure you look like the boss;
- Despite all the busyness, the holidays are a great time to boost your career, even for the jobs hoppers who, according to Fast Company, are not as stigmatized as before (you may want to check out that new job posting);
- The Daily Muse writes about how to network, impress and still have loads of fun at your office holiday party, while Slate has great tips on how to rescue a boring conversation beyond the “what do you do” pick up line;
- Inc. tips us off on how to get 90% of your work done before lunch;
- Fight the stress this holiday season, with Dr. Mommy’s tip on using one hour a week, yes just an hour a week, to relieve stress;
- The Harvard Business Review has an interesting take on making dumb groups smarter (and it works), while writing about how great managers motivate their teams to innovate;
- It’s time to revise your resume, and Campus to Career has this great infographic describing your resume as a burger;
- ‘Tis the season for office gift giving: check out Levo League‘s gift guide rulebook for your office;
- And if you’ve been dreaming to escape the craziness of the holiday season (I know I have), Business Insider lists the 10 highest-paying jobs for people who love to travel;
- Columbian.com reveals mobility is more of an issue for jobs men choose, rather than women (we knew it, but feel vindicated to have it in print);
- Lifehacker shows you how hard it be to pay your student loans based on your major;
- The Onion had me in stitches reading this hilarious, but oh so true piece, entitled” As a working mom, it’s hard to find time to masturbate” (a must read);
- Last but not least, if you’re feeling off track this holiday season, take a listen to this excerpt from For Harriet Oprah’s take on life, career and leadership:
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by Solange Lopes | Dec 3, 2014 | Career |
Plaid A-line skirt – Photo: talbots.com
This plaid A-line skirt from Talbots has such a “Christmas-y” feel, yet is great for work! Loving the easy plaid fabric on an otherwise classic A-line skirt, perfect for the season! This skirt is $99 at Talbots, and you can take 30% off your entire purchase now through 12/10!
I’d pair this elegant skirt with a classic turtleneck like this luxurious cashmere version from Ann Taylor, or even this relaxed draped version. A nice pair of leather wedge booties like this one would complete the look beautifully (past….shoes and accessories are 50% off at Ann Taylor!).
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by Solange Lopes | Dec 3, 2014 | Career |
Tanisha Robinson – Photo: fastcompany.com
Today I would like to introduce a new series I’ve been itching to start for some time, called “Woman of Impact”. This series is to showcase women, especially minority women, who are making a difference in the corporate and business world, and inspiring the rest of us. This week, it’s my pleasure to discover, and write about, Tanisha Robinson, female, black and gay CEO of Print Syndicate.
A self-proclaimed introvert and entrepreneur extraordinaire, Ms. Robinson is as authentic as it comes. And for a 5’11” black woman sporting a fro and openly declaring her sexual orientation, authenticity, especially in business, is no easy feat.
After being dismissed from the Army because of her sexual orientation, Tanisha Robinson went on to find a warmer welcome in the more diverse world of tech. Successfully experImenting with affiliate marketing at first, and creating a deals site she later sold, Ms. Robinson started making her mark in e-commerce, and enjoying it too. Her latest startup, Print Syndicate, launched with longtime business partner Michael Limes, helps people express their identity through customized apparel.
What struck me about Tanisha Robinson as I scoured articles about her, is her categorical refusal to compromise her identity for the sake of business success. And as it turns out, her authenticity and honesty about who she is and what she represents may just be behind her massive, and growing success.
It gives me hope to see Black and minority women striving without compromising, keeping their soul intact and baring it for the world to see that, in diversity, authenticity and truth, we all end up winning…
Thank you Tanisha Robinson!
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by Solange Lopes | Dec 2, 2014 | Career |
Workplace giving – Photo: http://www.abilityconnectioncolorado.org
Happy #GivingTuesday! So you’ve had a day to give thanks (mostly for your stomach’s miraculous capacity at ingesting high-fat food), a couple of days to break the bank (and then some), and while you’re still standing (albeit with your wallet lighter and your body heavier), how about giving something away…at work? And no, I don’t mean the five minutes your computer takes its sweet time to shut down, or how you left the last donut in the cafeteria untouched (after ingesting three of its dough brothers), but really give something of yourself…
Are you an encourager, or is there a giant STOP sign somewhere between your teeth and the roof of your mouth preventing you from uttering a single word of encouragement to anyone? How about paying a compliment to one of your team members who’s been staying late every night? Or finding a way to help a co-worker solve a work problem? Or contributing as a team to a charity in need? What have you given at work lately, that did not reflect itself on your paycheck?
It’s Giving Tuesday, choose to inspire and encourage others, and watch how it will motivate you in return. Besides, motivating others is the true sign of leadership!
Happy Giving Tuesday!
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