by Solange Lopes | Aug 3, 2014 | Career |
Weekly news update – auto straddle.com
Happy Sunday! Hope everyone is having a great week-end, refueling and relaxing before the start of the week (again!)…As for me, I’m sipping on my morning’ Joe, sifting throughout the news that made me smile, sigh and outright burst into laughter (or other things) this week:
- Looking at my backed-up laundry loads, I can definitely relate to this NPR blog post around “when work becomes a haven from stress at home“, just sayin’;
- The NY Times confirms paid leave encourages female employees to stay (as we’ve been saying for years);
- The National Journal tells us, in a compelling, must-read article, what it’s like to balance work and family as a woman of color;
- Speaking of women in tech, the Hire More Women in Tech campaign gives us a few real pointers on how to hire much needed women in tech, while Fast Company reveals New York’s tech companies have the biggest gender gap and the Huff Post confirms diversity data shows the need to focus on women of color;
- In positive, woman-forward news, For Harriet celebrates attorney Michelle Roberts’ election as first woman head of the NBA Players Association;
- WSJ points out the scary, but real, fact that unfortunately, women are penalized for promoting other women, and more so when it comes to minorities pushing for other minorities, just sad!;
- As you think about packing your meals for the work week, Mashable shares 5 nutritionist secrets to supercharge your 9-to-5;
- In happy, feel-good news, Business Insider tells us about two MIT grads who created a startup almost exclusively hiring autistic employees;
- And if you’re looking for a match made in heaven between your boss and yourself, well, eHarmony unveils a service to do just that;
- In work fashion news, I’m loving Elle‘s selection of “perfect” work pants, while Refinery 29 reveals Banana Republic’s new fab collection with Roland Mouret (can’t wait!), along with 8 brunch outfits even better than your meal;
- Lat but not least, The Corporate Sister is keeping it real with advice on how to break up with your inner critic, why you should have a “stop doing list“, and how to develop thick skin at work.
That’s it for my news ranting for this week, I’m off to brunch! Enjoy your Sunday, much love!
The Corporate Sis.
by Solange Lopes | Aug 1, 2014 | Career |
City-Crepe-Palazzo-Soft-Pant-Paisley – $54.95 – nyandcompany.com
I love an easy, flawy, no-fuss pair of pants for the week-end, other than my favorite jeans or cargo pants. Hence this week-end’s pick, these crepe Palazzo soft pants.
Love the easy, flawy look of these soft pants, which can easily be paired with a simple tee and accessories during the day, or dressed up with an elegant blouse and heels in the evening. I would even wear these to work, on a less formal day.
These soft pants are also softly priced, at $54.95 at nyandcompany.com. And it’s buy1 get 1 free to boot….
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by Solange Lopes | Aug 1, 2014 | Career
Cap Sleeve Fit and Flare Dress – $29.95 – the limited.com
For our Work It feature today, I’m back to my (healthy) obsession with the fit-and-flare silhouette (check out our other selections here, and here, oh and here too). Loving this cap sleeve fit-and-flare dress from The Limited. Many fit-and-flare dresses are sleeveless, so it’s nice to find one with sleeves (which makes it easier to wear alone).
The silhouette is traditionally flattering while still being forgiving, and the teal color is my favorite (also available in blue, red, and burgundy). It’s on sale for $29.90 at thelimited.com, and you can get an extra 40% off on all sales items!
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by Solange Lopes | Aug 1, 2014 | Career |
Coach – abcnews4.com
Happy Friday!
I have this girlfriend called Keisha. Really, she’s more like the frenemy you can’t seem to get rid of…ever! You know, the girl who’s a lot like you but seems bent on criticizing everything you do! “Girl, doesn’t look like you’re getting this promotion!” “Girl, you said that during the departmental meeting, ouch!” Girl this, girl that! And it’s not like you can ignore her calls, or block her on Facebook, for the simple reason that she’s right there…in your head!
We all have our own Keishas, the nagging voice in our heads, especially as corporate sisters, that tells us we’re not qualified enough, not vocal enough, not smart enough, or that we don’t exactly look the par. Keisha is our very own personal inner critic, the sister who tries to make us feel justified, safe and comfortable. Yet, what Keisha really does, is sabotage our efforts, impede our progress, and stand in our way to success, professional or otherwise.
Ever thought you didn’t really deserve that promotion, and thus failed to ask for it? Ever wanted to volunteer for that pilot project at work but refrained to for fear you’d fail at it? Every time you’ve shrunk back in the face of challenges, chances are you were wrestling with your inner critic, your own Keisha. And it may be high time to break up this unhealthy, failing relationship:
1. Check out the competition! If you don’t really know what you’re up against, chances are you won’t know how to fight it. What your innermost thoughts? What patterns of negativity and self-doubt do you give in to? What triggers your negative self-talk? Analyze the voice in your head, and learn to recognize the negative signs before they occur.
2. Stop Thinking, start acting! Overthinking may at times keep you away from opportunities of growth and success. If you’d like to volunteer for this project, go ahead and do it! Thinking you deserve a promotion? Stop thinking, schedule some time with your boss and speak your mind! Just do it!
3. Practice tunnel vision! When it comes to success, focusing on what really matters and eliminating distractions is key! Re-focus on your goals and objectives, and let go of the dead weight and negative voices. It may seem simplistic, yet by calibrating your focus, you can succeed in silencing the self-doubt and minimizing the obstacles in your way.
So yeah, Keisha, it’s been real but time to move on! Girl, bye!
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by Solange Lopes | Jul 31, 2014 | Career
Wunderlist app – thatcareergirl.com
I wrote this morning about why we should all have a “stop doing” list. Well, we should still keep our to-do lists though, and speaking of to-do lists, one of my most favorite to-do apps is Wunderlist. Basically, Wunderlist is a desktop and mobile to-do list manager, with apps available for Android, iOs, Windows, OS X, and Linux. Well, apart from the technical lingo (which obviously did not come from me, thanks Lifehacker), it’s simple enough (enough for me), supports to-do’s, reminders, and even the possibility to star important tasks.
Well, it has now been enhanced to include real-time sync, public lists, and even a new interface! Among the improvements are easier to create lists, better navigation, perks like being able to add comments or voice notes to your tasks. And if you cringe at the thought of your sister-in-law having access to your account, you can share tasks using the Public Lists feature.
Got Wunderlist?
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by Solange Lopes | Jul 31, 2014 | Career
Seamed Detail Skirt – $17.99 – jcpenney.com
I am so excited about today’s Work It fashion pick! This Worthington seamed detail skirt from JC Penney is not only sharp and original, what with its creative seaming detail combining a bright yellow hue with a cooler black side panel.
Love love the look of this skirt, whose back turns into a uniform yellow color. And the price is just as exciting, as it’s on clearance for…$17.99, you read right, $17.99!
Great office-friendly fashion pick!
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by Solange Lopes | Jul 31, 2014 | Career |
Stop Doing List – cindygrasso.com
Happy Thursday!
I’m a to-do list girl. I like to start the day with my to-do’s ordered like ducks in a row, with pretty asterisks and color codes next to them. Don’t judge me! Yet, as effective (and compulsively entertaining as my endless lists may be), they’re not always as effective, for the simple reason that in the midst of all the things I have to do, are all the unspoken, unwritten and unrealized things I (along with the rest of us professional mortals) should STOP doing…
Productivity experts have been talking for a while about the “stop doing” or “don’t do” list. So I tried it, and while at first it was significantly less pretty than my “duck in a row”, ordered to-do lists, it works…Actually writing down limiting attitudes and beliefs like procrastination, stress, complaining, lack of team trust or fear of recognition, is all but a comfortable process. At first…Yet, the sheer act of making such a list, sticking it where you can see it most of the time, and actually holding yourself accountable to it, makes a difference, and a good one at that…
What are some of the things you should stop doing? Do you tend to work alone rather than seek the help and contribution of others? Are you afraid to ask for feedback? Do you fail to pay attention to details? Ask yourself the difficult questions, and don’t be afraid to write down those things you should no longer be doing. Getting better at what you do is not just a matter of doing more of what works, but also doing less of what doesn’t…
“The difference between successful people and very successful people is that very successful people say ‘no’ to almost everything.” Warren Buffett
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