Despite all the advice out there about controlling, picking or changing your career, do you ever feel that at the end of the day you may not have much control over it? That the pressure to gain a paycheck, advance in rank and find your professional place keeps blowing...

Me: "But why?" Co-worker/friend: " She just doesn't like you. I'm sorry." That was the beginning of a conversation that would end in S. quitting her job a few months later. The woman she was working with at the time did not like her. As simple as that. And because the...